Men-should-lead-women-should-follow proponents sometimes claim they take scripture at face value, while those who disagree ignore the Bible/ add to it/ re-interpret it. But is this true? Or do hierarchial complimentarians (believers in “men should lead, women should follow”) ignore the plain meaning of scripture in favor of what they want to believe?
(Several comments below deals with the is/ ought distinction. To explain that in plain language, when I say “water run downwards” it is a claim of what is the case. We cannot go from “water run downwards” to “water ought to run downwards, so drinking straws are immoral, and dogs lapping up water is immoral.” “There were slaves in first century Roman culture” does not mean: “There ought to be slaves today.”)
Hierarchial complementarians usually:
> Read God’s statement to Eve- “thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee” as ” thy desire should be to thy husband, and he ought to rule over thee.“
> Read ought into the two verses which call man the head of the woman, although the verses use “is”, not “ought”.
Seemingly fail to read the plain meaning of Gal 3:2: “in Whom there is no Jew nor yet Greek, there is no slave nor yet free, there is no male and female, for you all are one in Christ Jesus.”
Seemingly fail to read the plain meaning of 1Co 14:31 “For ye all can prophesy one by one, that all may learn, and all may be exhorted,” and believe women are not part of the all.
> Read leadership into the two verses which call man the head of the woman, although not everyone agree it is in the plain meaning of the text, and fail to see the things that plainly speak against that interpretation. *
> Quote Eph 5:22 without reference to 5:21 (everyone submitting to one another), even though 5:22 does not have its own verb in the original manuscripts of scripture and borrow from 5:21.
> Seemingly fail to read the plain meaning of “all submit” (If all believers should submit to one another, then submission do not place the Christian husband in a hierarchy over his Christian wife.)
> Ignore that 1 Timothy 2:12 say “I (Paul) do not allow…” and act as if it say “God does not allow.” (The meaning of exactly what is not allowed, and who – one woman, all of that congregation, or all women in the world, is not plain either and caused many scholars much debate. Hierarchial complimentarians tend to “solve” this by simply ignoring all scholarship they dislike and just quoting their favorite translation – the plain meaning of other translations do not matter.)
> Do not take ” No servant can serve two masters”(Luk 16:13) at face value, but ask women to serve two masters, God and the husband.
> Seemingly fail to read the plain meaning of “Priscilla taught Apollos” (Acts 18:26)
They sometimes, although I cannot say if it is standard:
Quote “the woman ought to have authority over her head “(1Co 11:10) with extra words inserted that is not part of either the original Bible languages or the King James. They claim it says: “the woman ought to have a sign of authority over her head.” They read it as “the woman ought to have a sign of her husband’s authority over her head.”
> Read hierarchy (men over women) into the role of helper (Gen. 2:20), while the face value meaning of helper – God is also called a helper – does not require it.
> Read ought-ness into places where men are called rulers of the home (oikosdespotes, home=oikos in Greek, despotes=ruler)
> Read maleness into places where unnamed people are called rulers of the home. (That may be correct, seeing the culture the Bible was written in, but it is not the plain meaning of the text.)
> Read ought-ness out of the statement that remarried widows should rule the home (1Ti 5:14)(oikosdespoteo, home=oikos in Greek, despoteo=rule)
> Read “Eve was deceived, Adam was not” as “all women are easily deceived.“
> Say even though the Bible makes men the head of women by their “plain” Bible reading, this only applies in the church and home and not the rest of society. No verses, by the plain meaning, show women could step into leadership roles as long as it isn’t in the church and home.
> Seemingly fail to read the plain meaning of “For there is one God, one mediator also between God and mankind, Christ Jesus.” (1Tim 2:5) (They believe men are the mediator between God and their wifes/ children).
Of course, the men-should-lead brigade could give long answers of why they read some of these things into scripture, or why they underplay others. But giving long answers why you don’t take scripture at face value, is still not taking scripture at face value.
Will I blame them for not taking scripture at face value? Yes. Not because scripture should always be taken at face value (it should not- sometimes the truth is harder to find), but because “ for with what judgment you are judging, shall you be judged, and with what measure you are measuring, shall it be measured to you.”(Mat 7:2) For that reason, I hold that even God will judge them for not taking scripture on face value.
Other egalitarians (non-hierarchal complementarians, really!) are welcome to add examples of scriptures that the men-should-lead brigade simply does not see the plain meaning of.
* See here, in the discussion of Eph 5:23 and 1Co 11:3, why I think those texts give plainly visible clues that man being the head of the wife does not make him the leader and her the follower.